Comments on: Warm, Soapy Fingers http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/ Sensual Tease and Denial Wed, 07 Apr 2010 23:14:47 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Lady Julia http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-505 Lady Julia Sun, 31 Jan 2010 01:46:19 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-505 You were clear enough and your prose wasn't awkward at all. I just wanted to make sure I understood before I went on to tell you that your words brought a few tears last night when I read them. People frequently ask me why I do the things I do (the MP3s, these experiences, etc). They cynically look for a hidden agenda, especially a monetary one. What you wrote - that's the main reason I do it. I'll remember your words for a long time. Thank you for sharing. You were clear enough and your prose wasn’t awkward at all. I just wanted to make sure I understood before I went on to tell you that your words brought a few tears last night when I read them. People frequently ask me why I do the things I do (the MP3s, these experiences, etc). They cynically look for a hidden agenda, especially a monetary one. What you wrote – that’s the main reason I do it.

I’ll remember your words for a long time. Thank you for sharing.

]]> By: rumiboy http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-504 rumiboy Sun, 31 Jan 2010 01:29:58 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-504 What I was trying to say in my awkward prose is that, no, I very much don't feel the shame anymore that I used to if anyone were to suggest that I was "submissive." In the last six months, your gentle guidance has helped me see that that is exactly what I am, and have been as long as I can remember. The wave of gratitude? I sure still feel that. What I was trying to say in my awkward prose is that, no, I very much don’t feel the shame anymore that I used to if anyone were to suggest that I was “submissive.” In the last six months, your gentle guidance has helped me see that that is exactly what I am, and have been as long as I can remember. The wave of gratitude? I sure still feel that.

]]> By: Lady Julia http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-499 Lady Julia Sat, 30 Jan 2010 22:24:01 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-499 <i>Laid the cards out while kneeling on a towel and felt what I can only describe as a wave of gratitude while I considered how submission has always been something I was slightly ashamed of.</i> Do you still feel that way, Rumi? Laid the cards out while kneeling on a towel and felt what I can only describe as a wave of gratitude while I considered how submission has always been something I was slightly ashamed of.

Do you still feel that way, Rumi?

]]> By: rumiboy http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-492 rumiboy Sat, 30 Jan 2010 04:20:07 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-492 Day 4 for Rumi: woke up late and ran to the bathroom. Laid the cards out while kneeling on a towel and felt what I can only describe as a wave of gratitude while I considered how submission has always been something I was slightly ashamed of. I thank you, Lady Julia, for giving so much of your time and attention, and the space for me to see how my feeble attempts at obedience can bring pleasure to someone else. Turning over the Jack of hearts, I observed a slight rise to attention, and a sudden warm sensation in my groin. Getting into the shower, did all my usual washing routines, then placed my hands on the wall over my head and felt the warm water streaming down my back while remembering the story. I felt very aroused, but without any physical manifestation, which made me worry about complying with the instructions. At the climax of the story (so to speak), I rapidly got stiff, and wanted so much to touch but wasn't sure I could control myself enough to stop, so just kind of batted it about for awhile then turned the cold water on and got out of the shower. Off to work and home again, caught up in the daily routine, only able to pause occasionally to be amazed at how much fun this is. Please, can we play one more day? Day 4 for Rumi: woke up late and ran to the bathroom. Laid the cards out while kneeling on a towel and felt what I can only describe as a wave of gratitude while I considered how submission has always been something I was slightly ashamed of. I thank you, Lady Julia, for giving so much of your time and attention, and the space for me to see how my feeble attempts at obedience can bring pleasure to someone else.

Turning over the Jack of hearts, I observed a slight rise to attention, and a sudden warm sensation in my groin. Getting into the shower, did all my usual washing routines, then placed my hands on the wall over my head and felt the warm water streaming down my back while remembering the story. I felt very aroused, but without any physical manifestation, which made me worry about complying with the instructions. At the climax of the story (so to speak), I rapidly got stiff, and wanted so much to touch but wasn’t sure I could control myself enough to stop, so just kind of batted it about for awhile then turned the cold water on and got out of the shower. Off to work and home again, caught up in the daily routine, only able to pause occasionally to be amazed at how much fun this is. Please, can we play one more day?

]]> By: Lady Julia http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-487 Lady Julia Fri, 29 Jan 2010 21:16:19 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-487 Kaysnd, that's ok about the card. Mistakes happen especially in a situation like this. The directions were a bit scattered and you just started. I know you will draw one every day forward because you want to obey :) Kaysnd, that’s ok about the card. Mistakes happen especially in a situation like this. The directions were a bit scattered and you just started. I know you will draw one every day forward because you want to obey :)

]]> By: rumiboy http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-484 rumiboy Fri, 29 Jan 2010 21:10:11 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-484 On day 3 of my participation, with the gracious permission of Lady Julia. With the Queen of Clubs in my wallet, I walked to work listening to my favorite Irish tunes, and imagined playing a set of reels on my mandolin and dancing for you. I spent the day not thinking erotic thoughts and not getting aroused each break when I went in the restroom and stared at the card. It just continues to amaze me how good it can feel to obey a request to not pleasure myself! On day 3 of my participation, with the gracious permission of Lady Julia. With the Queen of Clubs in my wallet, I walked to work listening to my favorite Irish tunes, and imagined playing a set of reels on my mandolin and dancing for you. I spent the day not thinking erotic thoughts and not getting aroused each break when I went in the restroom and stared at the card. It just continues to amaze me how good it can feel to obey a request to not pleasure myself!

]]> By: JSL http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-479 JSL Fri, 29 Jan 2010 05:17:01 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-479 P.S. I just wanted to say that your story for tomorrow is amazing. I can't wait to see what card I draw. Thank You, Jason P.S. I just wanted to say that your story for tomorrow is amazing. I can’t wait to see what card I draw.
Thank You,
Jason

]]> By: JSL http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-478 JSL Fri, 29 Jan 2010 05:14:06 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-478 Dear Lady Julia- This is day eight of my experience. I was thinking of you are your control all day. I am doing fine at maintaining normality in my regular life while remaining obedient to your commands. I was feeling a great desire to touch but I resisted the temptation as the Card you chose dictated. I find myself craving your control and commands more and more. Thank you for allowing me to participate in this experience thus far. Please grant me permission to continue to serve you in this experience. Humbly Yours, Jason Dear Lady Julia-
This is day eight of my experience.
I was thinking of you are your control all day.
I am doing fine at maintaining normality in my regular life while remaining obedient to your commands.
I was feeling a great desire to touch but I resisted the temptation as the Card you chose dictated.
I find myself craving your control and commands more and more.
Thank you for allowing me to participate in this experience thus far.
Please grant me permission to continue to serve you in this experience.

Humbly Yours,
Jason

]]> By: Kaysnd Steel http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-476 Kaysnd Steel Thu, 28 Jan 2010 23:38:21 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-476 Not drawing a card was a mistake. You specifically instruct us to draw a card every day. I did not. Not drawing a card was a mistake. You specifically instruct us to draw a card every day. I did not.

]]> By: Kaysnd Steel http://tease-and-denial.net/simple-dominance/341-warm-soapy-fingers/comment-page-1/#comment-475 Kaysnd Steel Thu, 28 Jan 2010 23:29:02 +0000 http://tease-and-denial.net/?p=341#comment-475 Today is day 3 of my experience. I did not draw a card this morning knowing that I had the Queen of Clubs and there would be no touching or release for me today. I feel the pressure building for a release, especially after the last two days of teasing and going to the brink. It is having an affect on my day dreams and night dreams. It reminds me of your control and my desire to please you. Please allow me to continue. I had a light schedule at work today and finished up some loose ends and performance reviews. I will shortly go upstairs and cook some supper and settle into the evening. No problems in my sphere with obeying and submitting to your desires. I take my shower in the morning and tomorrow I will draw my card just before I go in. I will dream of the Queen of Hearts. Maybe it will come true. Today is day 3 of my experience.

I did not draw a card this morning knowing that I had the Queen of Clubs and there would be no touching or release for me today.

I feel the pressure building for a release, especially after the last two days of teasing and going to the brink. It is having an affect on my day dreams and night dreams. It reminds me of your control and my desire to please you. Please allow me to continue.

I had a light schedule at work today and finished up some loose ends and performance reviews. I will shortly go upstairs and cook some supper and settle into the evening. No problems in my sphere with obeying and submitting to your desires.

I take my shower in the morning and tomorrow I will draw my card just before I go in. I will dream of the Queen of Hearts. Maybe it will come true.

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