My most erotic visual aid whild self pleasuring is looking down between my legs and seeing the lace sheer panties I chose to wear that day pulled aside and taught.

> Ordinarily when you are self pleasuring, what sort of visual aids do you use (if any)?

Yes, very politely put! I hope my answer is likewise.

By far my biggest “turn on” for me is women teasing and controlling males – I guess no surprise. I find subtlety, the female form and “mind games” the most exciting. Women masturbating or directing men to either please them, worship them or watch denied as they please themselves all do it for me. Also males being teased and denied release. The “visual aid” can be an image or a video. (I don’t suppose audio or written materials are “visual aids” but they work too!)
Blatant “in your face” anatomical materials, demeaning verbal abuse of males or silicone “Barbie doll” mistresses are a definite turn off for me.

Thank you for allowing me to participate. I hope you get as much out of it as I will.

This is day 2 of my experience. Today I drew the Jack of Hearts. It being still early in the experience for me and being so used to edging and having a bit of experience with denial, that in itself was not difficult for me. The effect, though, is quite profound, as it gives me time to contemplate control, the lack of it and all that that means.

Thank you again.

I drew the Queen of Diamonds. No touching yesterday.

I must salute you (bows down). I am in a “Amped” up state again. I did not think it would happen this quickly. The reading assignment was awesome. So was your question about what we thought about while self pleasuring. So guess what I was thinking about yesterday. Nice touch. (Fencers salute).

This morning I followed the pattern and woke up in a very aroused state. I even moaned when the sheets dragged across my thighs. Wow. Had to get out of bed right away. No way I would have behaved had I stayed there.

What do I think of while self pleasuring? It is situational, but nothing gets me to the edge or over than a woman climaxing. So I usually fantasize about that. Frequently I fantasize about oral pleasuring my partner. During this experience I fantasize about doing it from my knees.

About today’s reading assignment. Bravo. It was very tender/sweet/erotic/steamy story. It works on so many levels. Thank you for that.

I will draw a card today unless I hear from you.

Obediently,

Mike