Is It the Control or the Denial?

(Image by Jay)

When you are being experiencing a period of denial, which makes more of an impact on you – being denied or being controlled?

Let’s find out.

No matter which card you’ve drawn today, it’s the Queen of Hearts.  Each of you participating will release today.  Before you do, I want you to kneel for a few moments and consider that you are doing what I want, when I want.  Remember, obedience is pleasing and pleasing feels so very good ;)

(And yes, it excites me to think that you will be doing this even though you may in fact prefer the denial.)

** Addendum – I am not stopping this activity.  Releasing is not the end ;)

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4 Responses to “Is It the Control or the Denial?”

  1. Mike Says: January 21st, 2010 at 1:10 pm

    Jay,

    Very nice job on the image. I like it.

    Mike

  2. Jay Says: January 21st, 2010 at 4:52 pm

    Thanks Mike,
    I like the Queen of Hearts!
    I think she looks a bit “Gone with the Wind Scarlett O’Hara Classical Southern” :-)
    The rest of the Queens look to me very stern, strict, firm, demanding and uncompromising!!
    But maybe that’s just my imagination.
    Jay

  3. Jay Says: January 21st, 2010 at 11:02 pm

    Day 3
    I’m in complete disarray…..

    Technically, I did not comply with your instructions as I released 12 minutes into Day 4. I ask that you please forgive this transgression.

    Today I drew the Queen of Diamonds and when you changed it to the Queen of Hearts, I thought *thank you* *thank you* :-) But when it came time to comply, after a night out, a very nice meal and a few glasses of excellent wine, it was more difficult than I would have imagined!….today the Queen of Diamonds would have been easier to obey!

    As I knelt and obeyed your instructions, it was your control and my desire to comply with your wishes that was most wonderful
    … and from which my mind is still tingling….

    I have drawn a card for Day 4.

  4. Lady Julia Says: January 22nd, 2010 at 12:12 am

    Jay, you are doing fine. Don’t worry about the 12 minutes ;) That time difference makes it difficult to plan.

    And.. I like that it wasn’t totally easy for you tonight as it’s good every now and then to have to struggle to obey ;)

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