The Silken Tease

I’ve decided to give each of you individual instructions during the time you are all obediently participating in this Queen of Hearts activity. Can you imagine how much more intensely you will feel the control? :)

So, Mike. Amp it up, eh? I think I will quite enjoy that. I just hope you don’t regret not being more careful about what you wish for ;)

Before I instruct you further I would like to know, are you willing to extend this experience until I am ready to stop? Perhaps it will be five days more, two days less. Of course, that’s a lot more control to surrender. Are you up to it? ;)

It’s only been a couple of days so I suspect you are not having too difficult a time, yet.  I wonder how you will feel this weekend when you have more time to think about being teased and controlled?  Perhaps Saturday it will cross your mind only a few (20-30?) times ;)  On Sunday I suspect it will be quite a few more.

Did you know men reportedly think of sex 5,000 times a year?  That’s about 14 times a day.  Hmm.. as I consider that number, I will guess that my estimate is quite low ;)

Mike…

I believe Web and Jay are going to complete my other activity first, so.. it looks as if you alone have my attention for this activity – at least for the next few days. Now isn’t that an interesting situation… ;)

That doesn’t make you nervous, does it?

~ Lady Julia

I thought the photo made a nice little tease..

Mike, Web, and Jay,

I’ve been thinking of the three of you today. How excited you must feel as your mind frequently wonders which card you have drawn. Perhaps the Lady will show her beautiful face. Perhaps not. It doesn’t really matter, does it? Because it’s not about whether or not you touch and release, is it? I know the three of you well enough to understand that, for you, it’s about obedience. You want to obey because obeying me is pleasing, and pleasing me feels so very good.

Earlier I was thinking, “I could just tell them no matter what, they can’t touch or release. I could tell them to draw the card and make a choice: obey me through the draw, or obey me even more by taking that extra step and not touching at all. Whatever I choose, I know they will do. Especially if they know how strongly their obedience effects me.”

Relax good boys, I’m not telling you that – yet. For the moment we’ll simply wait and see if Luck is a Lady tonight ;)

Your happy and smiling tormentor,
Lady Julia

P.S.  The photo is a pretty good representation of how I’ve been feeling.

I’m not quite sure whether or not to progress with the Queen of Hearts experience today.  I have one person that will be participating, but I have given him permission to begin tomorrow.  I may have confused one person and a few others are delayed with another of my activities.

I suppose I will leave it like this for today:   I won’t modify any instructions until after I receive reports from participants.  Till then, simply follow the directions outlined in previous entries.

~ Lady Julia

I’m quite excited to be doing this Queen of Hearts activity with you :) Tomorrow will be day one.

The basic instructions can be found here. Read them thoroughly.

In addition to those instructions, I would like for you to also answer the following:

When did you first realize you were submissive?

What appeals to you about submission and also hypnosis?

During the experience, as always, you will make certain this doesn’t interfere with your life in any negative way. If your partner initiates sex during this time then go for it – just don’t you initiate it.

You will post daily to let me know how you’re doing, what you’re feeling, etc. You will also check each day to see what new instructions or changes I may have left.

I’ll check back as often I can to answer any questions.

Warmly,
Lady Julia

On Wednesday I will begin the Queen of Hearts activity. If you will be participating, you’ll need to purchase a new deck of cards. Yes, I don’t care if you have 30 decks of cards, this one is to be for me and only for me. You can do that for me, can’t you? :) (If you recently submitted to this activity in TCOD, you may use the deck you purchased for me then.)

I’ll be posting more directions tomorrow, but for now I would like to pose a few questions that you will respond to here in the comments section. How important is tease and denial to you? Which do you find most exciting – short term or long term denial? What is the longest period of time you have been denied or denied yourself?

I’m so looking forward to toying with you ;)

~ Lady Julia

“You shake my nerves and you rattle my brain
Too much love drives a man insane
You broke my will, oh what a thrill
Goodness gracious great balls of fire.”

- Great Balls of Fire by Otis Blackwell and Jack Hammer

I never really thought about these lyrics in a D/s sense until someone sent them to me today.  While I don’t want to break someone’s will, the rest of that really works for me ;)

It’s time for your period of tease and denial to begin.  How long will it be before I hear you plead?…  I know you won’t beg until you are desperate because you realize that’s part of what makes this so exciting for me.  You’re strong – you can hold out for awhile.  Your strength is a challenge I enjoy – your will is something to be conquered.  It’s fortunate I am so creative and skilled in the ways of tease and seduction…

And of course, during all this time of sweet denial for you, there will continue to be periods of amazing pleasure for me. You’ll make certain of that, won’t you? ;)

Recently I conducted the Queen of Hearts experience in The Circle of Dreams (TCOD).  I had so much fun doing it that I’ve decided to allow the readers here the opportunity to partake.  If you are interested, leave a comment :)  I will begin in one week.

I may or may not use the exact rules posted here earlier and I may or may not use the rules I posted in TCOD.  It all depends on how many people participate and what mood strikes me ;)

I realize most of the people who read here are members of TCOD.  As I so recently implemented this experience, there may be few who are ready to begin again.  It was clear from the posts how some struggled (yet remained obedient I am pleased to say) so it may be that some consider it too difficult an activity to allow them to commit to submitting.

~ Lady Julia

From Outside Vanilla:

Post title: Help! Need strength

Am cracking, need to cum, not allowed.

Times like this I should be locked. Hard to resist!

So succinct, so desperate, so incredibly hot! I love that he is feeling tortured for his wife but he is still willing to obey. What a good boy ;)