Tell Me..

Come here.

Yes, that’s right.  Scoot closer to the screen.

Did you do as I asked?

We’re going to add another twist to your directions.  Each day you will ask me for permission to continue on with this activity for another day.  The request should contain at a minimum the word “please”.  Should you wish to add accolades (you are wonderful Lady Julia, you are too sexy for words Lady Julia) that will earn more points ;)   Just teasing on that last part.

Today you will again behave as if you drew the Jack of Hearts.  Bring yourself to the edge twice and stop.  While you’re doing this, I would like for you to think of a truly exciting fantasy – a fantasy that you will describe to me in your next comment.  Don’t worry – you all write wonderfully, but your description doesn’t have to be any more detailed than time and your comfort level permits.

Can’t wait to hear from you ;)

~  Lady Julia

~ ~

Oh… and why did I ask you to scoot closer to the screen?  Just to see if you would ;)

Posted by Lady Julia on January 27th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 15 Comments

In a Bind

Aren’t you doing well? :) I’ve been super busy yesterday and today but thoughts of you have gone with me. I’m so impressed with how well you are all doing!

Even though you are all at varying stages, I thought it would be fun to make things a bit more… difficult. Today, you will draw the Jack of Hearts. When you tease, I want you to tease in the most exciting manner possible for your circumstances. If porn is your hot button, then porn it is. If reading something super sexy works for you, then find a favorite. Whatever it takes to well and truly tease.

Bring yourself to the edge and stop. Wait a bit but continue the mental tease (watching the porn, reading the story, whatever) and then bring yourself to the edge once more. Then stop.

Oh, and one more thing. Before you begin to touch, wrap something around your wrists that will simulate bondage. Perhaps a tie, a cloth belt – something like that.

I do really enjoy thinking of such good boys bound and teasing…

(Jason, I know you’ve been ill.  Do only what you can til you are feeling better.)

Posted by Lady Julia on January 26th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 8 Comments

Those Confusing Days of the Week

It seems things are getting a bit confusing, so I’m going to take a step back and review your instructions.

You each have a stack of cards containing four jacks and four queens, one of each suit. These cards are taken from a deck you purchased specifically for me.

For at least a week, your solo masturbation and orgasm activities will be determined by the luck of the draw (or, if I so choose, directly by me). Draw a card each day, even if I instruct you to do something differently than the card indicates. I want you to have the card as a reminder and also as an option should I change my mind :)

Shuffle the eight cards and each morning, draw one. Place it somewhere on your person or in a briefcase, wallet, etc. Do not look at it. As late in the day as possible, you will review the card to reveal your fate.

Before you review your card, you will spend a few moments considering how exciting it is to be teased and then denied by someone who will be thoroughly enjoying as many orgasms as she wishes. To feel that delicious control – knowing you willingly surrendered because you were persuaded to do so by a sexy, powerfully dominant Lady ;) Reflect on how wonderful it feels to please. You will consider these things while on your knees, sitting back on your shins, legs spread, eyes open so that you can view your body’s response to being controlled. You will kneel in the same manner as soon as possible after awakening.

Should you draw one of the Jacks, you will masturbate, bringing yourself right to the edge but no farther. You will do this one time during that day.

Should you draw the Queen of Spades, Diamonds, or Clubs, you may not touch at all that day. I’m sure you will frequently find yourself considering how agonizingly delicious it is to be denied.

On the days you draw the Queen of Hearts – the Red Lady – you may touch, tease, and release once.

Of course you will offer a daily report to me indicating which card you drew and how you are feeling about being controlled by such a sexy lady ;) To help me keep up with where each of you are, in your daily comment I would like for you to include the phrase “this is day ___ of my experience”. Fill in the blank with the correct number for you.

Each of you have been participating varying lengths of time and I think we’re all confused as to which day’s instructions you should be following. Beginning from the time you read this by following what I am writing in this post. This way I’ll know where each of you are.

Today you will draw a card and follow through as indicated.

Your reading for today can be found here

If you have any questions, leave them and I will check in later to respond. If you aren’t sure what to do and you don’t have a response from me, then do what you think is the right thing. A reasonable person never gets upset when someone makes an effort to do what they think is correct :)

Sorry I haven’t answered emails or given you any feedback for Sunday. I’ve been much busier than I anticipated and will be til tomorrow evening. If my grammar stinks or there are tons of typos in this post, I haven’t had time to double check and I refer back to the previous sentence :)

Posted by Lady Julia on January 25th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 12 Comments

Sunday’s Instructions

Hello Fellas :)

As I said yesterday, today I’d like you to follow the cards.  Whatever you draw is what you do.

I would like to ask a question and this once, answering is optional.

Ordinarily when you are self pleasuring, what sort of visual aids do you use (if any)?   Wasn’t that a polite way to ask that question? :)   You may answer me in private if you prefer or not at all.  Just remember.. whatever information I have, I may use it against you ;)

Sunday’s reading may be found here.

Posted by Lady Julia on January 23rd, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 4 Comments

Saturday’s Instructions

You’re doing really great, fellas :)   I am so enjoying reading your comments and watching your progress.

Today and tomorrow I would like for you to draw your cards and at the appropriate time carry out your directions.  I may change that later, but for now, that’s what I would like for you to do.

Your reading for today can be found here.

(More later today if possible.)

Posted by Lady Julia on January 23rd, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 8 Comments

Wild Card

Well, fellas, I think yesterday was probably interesting for all of us.   I found myself thinking of you and wondering what you would be feeling “the day after”.   Do you continue to feel focused and controlled?

I realize we are all in different time zones and there may be a time when I cannot post at all, so continue drawing a card each day and carry it with you.  If you aren’t sure what to do, follow the instructions based on the card you drew.  Also, to help me keep up with where each of you are, in your daily comment I would like for you to include the phrase “this is day ___ of my experience”.  Fill in the blank with the correct number for you.

Today is “Wild Card” day.  Whatever card you drew, today and today only, it will be a “Wild Card”.  You may choose to make it any Jack or Queen in your deck.  Whatever you choose, leave a comment telling me why you chose it.  I know you realize that by giving you a choice, I remain in control.  It was my decision to broaden your options ;)

Finally, today’s reading can be found here.

(I’m having some issues today that are distracting me, so if my instructions aren’t clear or are poorly worded, leave a comment.  I’ll check back later to see if you have any questions.)

Posted by Lady Julia on January 22nd, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 7 Comments

What About The Tease

Hello Fellas,

A large part of the tease and denial experience is, well – the tease.  During this QoH experience there hasn’t been a lot of tease, has there?  Well a little.. I always tease a little ;)

Because I don’t know some of you, it’s difficult.  My respect for boundaries also somewhat limits what I am willing to say and do.  So… what’s a Lady to do?

I’ll begin with this:

If I haven’t already instructed you to do so, I’d like for you to begin kneeling for a few moments in the morning and evening, thinking about your surrender of this area of your life, what that surrender means to you and to a Domme, and what about this activity excites you the most.

Your kneeling position is as follows:  (if I’ve told you something else previously, begin following these instructions)

Kneel sitting back on your shins, legs wide apart leaving your cock exposed, hands resting on thighs, your head down, eyes open.  I want you to be able to look at your cock and think about all the things I could be having you do either directly or via my cards ;)

And.. I’m going to be leaving you a little something extra to read or listen to as often as I can.  Many of these are things I have written in the past to my pet.  This will give you a bit of an idea of what it is like to be well and truly teased.  I’m sure your imagination can take you to a place where the lady of your dreams is teasing you.

Perhaps this will amp things up a bit more ;)

To read today’s reading, click here.  (If you have already completed your task for today, you may still read it.)

~ Lady Julia

Posted by Lady Julia on January 21st, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 12 Comments

Is It the Control or the Denial?

(Image by Jay)

When you are being experiencing a period of denial, which makes more of an impact on you – being denied or being controlled?

Let’s find out.

No matter which card you’ve drawn today, it’s the Queen of Hearts.  Each of you participating will release today.  Before you do, I want you to kneel for a few moments and consider that you are doing what I want, when I want.  Remember, obedience is pleasing and pleasing feels so very good ;)

(And yes, it excites me to think that you will be doing this even though you may in fact prefer the denial.)

** Addendum – I am not stopping this activity.  Releasing is not the end ;)

Posted by Lady Julia on January 21st, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 4 Comments

Time Limits

I realize we discussed doing this activity for seven days, but I would like to continue for a while longer. You wouldn’t mind that, would you fellas?  You don’t really need to know the stop date, do you?  I’m sure it’s more than a little hot to think of not knowing and letting me decide.

Teasing someone, denying them for awhile – since you know those are very exciting things for me, I am sure you are having no difficulty imagining just how much I am enjoying these activities ;)

Posted by Lady Julia on January 20th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 6 Comments

Tease, Denial, Chastity and More

Tom Allen has just published a sizzling hot tease, denial, and chastity story that I thought some of you would enjoy. Armed with the ability to create believable characters and an accuracy of description that must surely stem from many “been there, done that” moments, Tom always creates a fine read.

Posted by Lady Julia on January 17th, 2010 under chastity • 11 Comments