Love Letters

Hello Good Boys :)

You’ve been controlled for several days now so I’m sure the desire to please must really be building.  Because of this, I’ve decided tomorrow’s instructions will include the opportunity to do something that will please your Lady.

Take some time to consider how much you love her, why you love her, and all the things that combine to make her a beautiful person.  After you’ve given it some thought, sit down and express all those feelings in writing.  Trust me, it doesn’t have to be poetic, you don’t have to be the world’s greatest writer (although you all do write well) – it just has to come from your heart.

You’ll have to decide if you should actually give her the letter as only you have an inkling as to her possible reaction.   If you think she might not be receptive (or might over-react with suspicion, thinking you’ve done something you shouldn’t, etc.), then tuck it away.  It’s still a good exercise as it helps to ground us to review things like that every now and then.

There will be no reading assignment on this day.

Draw your card and follow through with your instructions as usual.

I hope you and your lady enjoy this.  I’ve enjoyed just thinking about it :)

Posted by Lady Julia on February 4th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 4 Comments

A Trip to the Grocery Store

And how are you today, fellas? :)  From the looks of your posts, you’re doing wonderfully!

For tomorrow I’m going to ask you to do something that might take a bit of time.  If you know you cannot complete your assignment, you let me know here before the end of the day tomorrow and I will alter your task.  By “cannot” I do mean that you genuinely are unable to do it, not “it’s inconvenient”.  Ok? :)

Sometime during the day you will make a trip to the supermarket.  Wander through the aisles and take note of anything that could be used to stimulate kinky/sexual thoughts or as part of kinky/sexual play.   Include things you might purchase if you were going to do something romantic for your Lady.  Present the list to me here when you post regarding this day.

Be sure and call your Lady before you go the market to see if you need to bring anything home with you ;)

Regarding touching/releasing, you will do as indicated by your card for the day.

Your reading assignment can be found here.

Posted by Lady Julia on February 3rd, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 5 Comments

Ring, Ring

Hello Gentlemen :)

Tomorrow’s assignment will require a bit of fantasizing on your part…  That won’t be a problem, will it? ;)

First, draw your card and carry it with you throughout the day without looking at it.  Right before you look at the card, spend some time thinking about the perfect phone call.  In general, what does she speak about?  How do you respond?  What, if anything, does she have you do?  What are you wearing?  What is she wearing?

You may think about this and work out the details any time between now and then, but just before you look at the card, allow the details to flow through your mind again.   Then, view your card and act on it.  If you are required to touch, then you may fantasize about whatever you like.  Do so, however, while kneeling.  If you are directed to release, also kneel.

Your reading assignment for tomorrow may be found here.

Thanks for being such very good boys ;)  I’m having a wonderful time with you.

Posted by Lady Julia on February 2nd, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 8 Comments

Fabulous Fiction

Smiles

Having a good time, are you, fellas?  I’m really having a great time, too.  Just as it should be, correct?  Win/win.

Tomorrow you will draw a card and follow through with whatever it indicates.

Instead of an assigned reading, you will each email to me the link for at least one piece of fiction that really excites you.

Don’t forget to report in with your answers to the questions I posed yesterday…

“Throughout the remainder of this experience I’d like for you to take special note of the women around you.  When you see or speak with someone that makes you think, “Oh she’s sexy!”, what about her makes you feel that way?  Pay extra special attention to the Ladies you see quite often and know fairly well.  What about their attitudes appeal to you?”

I know, I wasn’t clear before that I wanted to hear from  you regarding your thoughts on these questions.

Posted by Lady Julia on February 1st, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 5 Comments

It’s All in the Attitude

Tomorrow’s instructions?  They’re here somewhere…. ah yes.

Another Queen of Hearts day?  Oh my…  am I sure you can handle this so soon and still maintain focus?

Hmm… yes, I think you can ;)

Pull from your deck the Queen of Hearts.   Carry her with you all day long.  She’s such a lovely lady, isn’t she?  Sassy and demanding, sexy and playful.  Even though she’s an attractive queen, it’s more about her attitude, isn’t it?

Throughout the remainder of this experience I’d like for you to take special note of the women around you.  When you see or speak with someone that makes you think, “Oh she’s sexy!”, what about her makes you feel that way?  Pay extra special attention to the Ladies you see quite often and know fairly well.  What about their attitudes appeal to you?

Finally, instead of a reading assignment, I’d like for you to listen to my Kidnapped by a Domme:  the Climax.

(If you know you can’t find alone time to listen to an MP3, write me.)

Posted by Lady Julia on January 31st, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 8 Comments

Warming Up

Brr – it’s freezing here.  Half a foot of snow overnight leaves me with the need to warm things up a bit.  Can you imagine how cold one gets taking a bath out in the barn?  ;)

One of my friends, good boy that he is, sent a link to a story I believe will warm things up for you.  Let me know what you think.

Tomorrow you will revert to the luck of the draw.  In addition, I think it’s time we added a bit of service to all this :)  I’d like for you to do something nice for the lady in your life tomorrow.  If you can’t be with her, do something from afar.  Whatever your choice, select something uber romantic.  Should you have no lady in your life at the moment, then write to me privately and I will alter your instructions.

You’re doing great, fellas :)  I’m very pleased.

Posted by Lady Julia on January 30th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 15 Comments

It’s All Control

Hello Fellas,

It’s been a busy week, hasn’t it?  I think you might need a nice, quite, relaxing Saturday….

Tomorrow you will draw a card and carry it with you all day.  No matter what you draw, you will act as if it is the Queen of Hearts, sort of.  In the morning when you kneel, you will bring yourself to the edge and stop.  When you kneel the second time (as late in the day as possible), you will bring yourself to the edge and release.

Your reading for tomorrow can be found here.

Wandering won’t be joining you for a few days as he is ill.  Tomorrow will be Mike’s last day.  Everyone else will continue.

Remember, releasing isn’t the end – control is about what I request and you surrender.  If I request that you release four times in one day, that’s control (smiles, I won’t – just saying it would be if I did ;)

You’re doing great :)

~ Lady Julia

Posted by Lady Julia on January 29th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 14 Comments

Obedience

(Artwork by Steve Hanks)

It’s a really busy day for me, fellas so I will have respond to your comments a little later.  In the meantime, I wanted you to be thinking about something.  While orgasm control, including tease and denial is absolutely wonderful, it isn’t the whole enchilada of this experience.  Obedience to all instructions – paying attention to the details – is important as well.

Well, I hope it’s important to you because it is to me.  For me, part of leading these experiences is teaching you about the different aspects of D/s, so if I do not require you to follow my directions, I’m not meeting the goals I established for myself.

With that in mind, I’m going to accept or deny your continued participation at least in part based on your willingness to comply completely with my instructions.  They’re not difficult at all – I’m taking care to make sure of that.  They do require an effort to remember :)

Certainly if you have a reasonable explanation as to why you did not comply, I will respect that.  “I forgot” is not a reasonable explanation :)

I realize the instructions are revised within each day’s posts so some of you are probably confused.  I suggest you each do the following:

  • Read this post, noting the general requirements for this experience.  Do not be concerned about the directions for that particular day (ie, the directed reading, etc).
  • Read any post after that for general requirements (there are only 3-4 short ones after that).  Not all posts will have general requirements.
  • Take notes if you need to.
  • Ask questions if you require clarification.
  • Comply :)

I know you each intend to be good obedient boys, so if you review my instructions and you haven’t quite complied thus far, you’re forgiven :)

~ Lady Julia

Posted by Lady Julia on January 28th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 12 Comments

Warm, Soapy Fingers

Aren’t you all doing so well?   And… perhaps feeling a tiny bit of delicious frustration by now?  ;)  Let’s see what tomorrow’s instructions add to that.

Tomorrow you will draw your card as usual but you will look at it before you take your shower.  When in the shower, you will tease, release or not touch for pleasure at all, dependent upon which card you drew.  Then, as late in the day as possible, you will follow the card’s instructions just as you have in the past.

Your reading assignment for tomorrow can be found here.  Be certain to read it before you take your shower.  You may peek tonight if you wish.

Posted by Lady Julia on January 28th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 11 Comments

Introspection

Tomorrow will be a Queen of Clubs day.  No tease, no release.

Do you ever wonder why I decide to do a particular thing?  Why, for example, will there be no release, no tease tomorrow?   Some days I choose what I do because I want to elicit a certain reaction.  The choice for tomorrow was made simply because I can :)  You surrendered control and I can do whatever I want with regard to when and if you touch or release.

Pretty exciting stuff for me, really.

Also, starting today and every day forward I want you to add yet another line to your daily comment.   I want to read something that indicates you continue to be grounded and that nothing you are doing is interfering with your personal life.  If you cannot honestly write that, then as I have instructed for all my experiences, you will stop.  Write to me privately and we will discuss it.

I’m not concerned about this, just making sure in this exciting time that we are all doing what is necessary to make sure we stay focused :)

Posted by Lady Julia on January 27th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 11 Comments