I received a comment on my main blog from a woman who said she was new to the idea of dominating her partner and wanted a suggestion for an uncomplicated yet powerful ritual that she could establish.
The Femdom ritual is amazingly strong and exciting . The act draws the submissive’s mind to a place established by his Domme while reinforcing her control over him and his submission to her. If established to do so, these rituals can be observed and the reminder of that bond can be given whether the Domme is present or not. Clearly this would work well if the couple is not together every day. And.. it’s just fun :)
Many people have elaborate rituals that include a lot of really kinky things. When I read about them, I always find them very exciting, but they are a bit complicated in the really busy world that is my life. It’s easier for me and it seems more powerful for him if I tie the ritual to an every day activity like showering or bathing.
Imagine giving or being given these instructions:
Daily, I want you to stand naked in front of a mirror and allow your eyes to wander over your body. Consider how much I love your body, touching it and teasing it, using it in whatever way I see fit because it’s mine – mine because you’ve surrendered control of your body’s sexual pleasure to me. See what I see.. a sexy, strong man who allows me to use him as my erotic toy.
After a few moments contemplation, step into the bath or shower, turn on the water, soap up your hands and run them over the body that I control. Imagine how wonderful it feels for me to control that body.. to control your cock… yes, then touch your cock, tease it as I would if I were there… know how much I love controlling your pleasuring… then when you are well and truly excited, stop.
Mmm… such lovely tease and denial on a daily basis. Just thinking about it now excites me so much – knowing how deeply he has surrendered, how much I love his body, and how eager I am to touch and tease him in person.
I wonder how long it would be before he was begging for release? Smiles – it certainly wouldn’t take long before I was ordering him to his knees…
~ Lady Julia
That is BEAUTIFUL and SEXY!!!
Wow!
This is a beautiful layout and the “earth” and brown hues work so well. I also like the automatic spell checker in the comments. But my favourate is the picture header in the top right hand corner because of the feelings of allure it engenders.
Is the text body font a little small?
Good luck with this new site but I have always been fond of your intellectual, ethical and general insights. Your Obama election Blog, I believe, has been your best work ever!
Thank you Web :)
Nigel: I agree the font is a little small. I’m going to have to ask one of my web techie friends to see if he can modify the size.
Thanks for enjoying what I write.
As a submissive, I found you really nailed it with the following statement which resonates to my core: “Just thinking about it now excites me so much – knowing how deeply he has surrendered”.
It is the feeling that the submissive’s ‘circumstance’ is exciting the Domme that changes the dynamic from a sub getting off on his own kink, to one of a mutually agreeable relationship.
Love your new site. We know how you love chocolate… and how much you love driving us ……. well lets just say I know I could not refuse your orders…. on my knees for you already
Glad to see you are in full spirit
That is a really nice ritual Lady Julia that would fit into ones busy schedule on a daily basis quite easily.
i do feel that rituals are important in creating a complete relationship one with a worshipful attitude.