Archive for July, 2009

Playing With The Queen of Hearts

Today I am beginning a new experience with a few friends of mine.  Essentially I have modified a chastity activity I read about on Kinkoria.  (Really loving that blog, by the way.)
Their instructions are as follows:
You are to purchase a new deck of playing cards.  As usual when you obtain something to use for one [...]

Posted by Lady Julia on July 27th, 2009 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance  •  18 Comments

Desperate Pleas

Is it evil to deny someone release, not even allowing touching, only to do everything possible (except touching them) to get them to do both? ;)
I wonder how long a man could last with a steady stream of teasing…  surely even if they obeyed, there would be some serious begging involved..
Yes, yes, strictly rhetorical questions. [...]

Posted by Lady Julia on July 25th, 2009 under femdom  •  4 Comments

How Long…

What’s the longest period of time you have voluntarily gone without touching yourself for pleasure?  What about without ejaculating?  (Exclude times of illness or stress.)  How long do you think you *could* go if asked to do so by a Domme?  One more.. how long would you last if she were actively teasing you?
Now.. what [...]

Posted by Lady Julia on July 23rd, 2009 under chastity  •  15 Comments

What is a Keyholder?

In D/s circles, a key holder is the person who holds the key(s) to the submissive’s chastity device.  Sometimes this position is held by the individual’s partner but it is also a service provided by some professional dominants.  The keyholder maintains possession of the key until either an agreed upon date or, if the submissive [...]

Posted by Lady Julia on July 13th, 2009 under chastity  •  13 Comments

Teasing Self Control

Often when I write for my blogs it is obvious that I am writing to the fellas.  It makes sense, the majority of my readers are male.  Sometimes I feel the need to write for the ladies out there who may be new to dominance.  This is one of those occasions.  So fellas, you sit [...]

Posted by Lady Julia on July 9th, 2009 under simple dominance  •  6 Comments