A ruined orgasm is pretty much exactly as it sounds.  In femdom, male submissive terms, the man would be brought right to the edge and then his orgasm ruined in some way, perhaps via the infliction of non-erotic pain.  Perhaps she may tease and entice, leading him to think he will be allowed a glorious [...]

I’ve just posted a story by kurius on my Femdom Fantasies site.  As The Ultimate Gift deals with tease, denial, and chastity devices, I thought you might find it of interest :)
Thank you, kurius, for writing this for me.

I’m in the bedroom. I know you’re tired so come upstairs and sit with me awhile.
(Smiles) – I like watching your eyes as you enter the room and take in my apparel. I bought this r*d silk dressing gown and the red lace panties today while I was out shopping for other more [...]

Would you agree or disagree with the following:
Enoch Soames, “Excessive orgasm denial is self-defeating: after a certain period of time the man becomes habituated and the loss of orgasms has minimal emotional effect.”

On the blog, Pure Liquid Kink, the author calls to question claims that men are more attentive when locked in a chastity device.  This assertion, he says, is “bullshit”.
I’ve long wondered about this premise.  I’m not a submissive man so I freely admit that I cannot precisely understand what goes on in the minds of [...]

I received a comment on my main blog from a woman who said she was new to the idea of dominating her partner and wanted a suggestion for an uncomplicated yet powerful ritual that she could establish.
The Femdom ritual is amazingly strong and exciting .  The act draws the submissive’s mind to a place established [...]

Tease and denial have long been exciting to me.  Enticing a man, exciting him so much that he can barely refrain from coming, then ordering him to stop – yum.  The look on his face is always priceless :)
On this site I will discuss various ideas I have for tease, denial, and orgasm control [...]