i don’t know what would motivate me to go past this time but i know that from another 6 week long period that milking really helped me last. not that it was any less frustrating though. as far as motivation goes, usually the lengthy denial period is for the purpose of motivating me. the 7 week period was used to get me to try using a sound on myself. i certainly never thought that was something i could ever do but after 7 weeks w/o release, and the promise of an orgasm if i used the sound, i was able to do the unimaginable.

How long could I go not touching myself if asked to do so by a Domme. Hmmmmm a lot would depend on the Domme and what my relationship is with her. If I had a strong desire to please her I could go a long time. Well long for me that. I am thinking I could possibly go a month. Mmmmmm I am squirming reading what I just wrote knowing that means not even teasing myself. That would not be easy. I have been in chastity longer without releasing but that kept me from touching if I desired to.

How long would I last if she were actively teasing me. I am not sure exactly what you mean by this Lady Julia. In the context of the previous questions about not touching ones self I will answer this way. If the Domme were actively teasing me but not allowing me to cum during the teasing and there were no restrictions on me touching myself when she is away I am thinking I would not go long before touching myself. I might at first hope that she would have me cum during the teasing but if it went say for over a week with daily or nearly daily sessions I would surely not last past a week.

What would motivate me to go past that length of time. That is an easy one. Respect for and a desire to please a Domme. That would do it. Nods lots

If a Domme asked me to not touch myself, i could easily break that record…otherwise i don’t think i can top it. i would not last long if She was actively teasing me. my penis is extremely sensitive (being on certain herbal supplements), so i would last only days with teasing involved.

Female control would always get me to break my record.

I stay this way on trust. But what drives me is the feeling of ownership, the feeling of being taken in an severe way, the feeling of extreme control. The further the action is from fantasy, the more it becomes my reality, the more powerful it is. I need the power of what she aches to do.

Do I want to masturbate? Absolutely. Do I want to orgasm? Sometimes my physical need is overpowering. But the feeling of being my owner’s slave is stronger than the rush I would get from masturbating. The former feeling fills me, stays with me and grows.

But this dynamic requires continual involvement by each of us. The absence – no, the removal – of this sexuality is itself sexual. During those times my owner has stopped demonstrating her interest in chastity, during those times when it is not mentioned or does not seem heartfelt, I lose interest myself.

For me, staying chaste based on my own fantasies, when she removes herself, is the worst type of masturbation. I know what chastity feels like when she needs it. Then it is powerful; then I feel controlled. But when I do not feel her need, her demands, it feels empty. And unlike physical masturbation, there is no reward – again, I just speak for me and have no judgment on how others react – in the act itself.

Three or four days.

What about without ejaculating? (Exclude times of illness or stress.)

The same.

How long do you think you *could* go if asked to do so by a Domme?

If she wasn’t teasing me maybe a week.

One more.. how long would you last if she were actively teasing you?

Not long at all.

Now.. what would motivate you to go past the longest period of time you think you could handle? ;)

If she asked.

I’ve gone about two weeks without touching myself for pleasure. I’ve always found the tease and denial aspect of a relationship to be amazing.

The longest I’ve gone without coming was during that same time period and it was about two and a half weeks. Each night I would stroke for a good hour and build myself to the edge before letting go. When I finally allowed myself to come it shot all the way to my neck and chin.

If I were withholding for a Domme then I think I could last a few months. However, if she were constantly teasing me then it would complicate matters. There would never be a time where I would intentionally disobey her orders but I could see myself on my knees coming even though I was trying as hard as possible to hold it in.

What would motivate me to do it? The fact that I was pleasing a woman I cared for.

Thank you for the questions, Ma’am.

The longest I have gone without touching myself for pleasure would be about 2-3 weeks on geology field or camping/hiking trips (too tired after being in the bush all day and in the evening drinking copius amounts of alcohol) and on the home scene about a week.

What about without ejaculating?
Never!

How long do you think you *could* go if asked to do so by a Domme?
Pheww! Tough call. If I am getting a lot of affection such as kissing, cuddling, hugging and heavy petting; this would be a good short term substitute (smiles)
But realistically living in surf town? 48 hours!
Half naked beach babies running around every where is too much pressure (smiles).

How long would you last if she were actively teasing you?
3 – 5 minutes.

What would motivate you to go past the longest period of time you think you could handle?

That really depends on the dynamics of the relationship.
In the short term it would be difficult but in a long term relationship I would try hard to please my partner, especially if it was tested in stages, who knows?