You must write me privately, introduce yourself, and ask permission to begin this activity.  Your introduction should include your age, relationship status, and a statement that you will not allow any of this to interfere with your personal life.  I will not consider any request that includes less than that.

Here are the general instructions:

You will need a stack of cards containing four jacks and four queens, one of each suit. These cards are to be taken from a deck you purchased specifically for me.

For at least a week, your solo masturbation and orgasm activities will be determined by the luck of the draw (or, if I so choose, directly by me). Draw a card each day, even if I instruct you to do something differently than the card indicates. I want you to have the card as a reminder and also as an option should I change my mind :)

Shuffle the eight cards and each morning, draw one. Place it somewhere on your person or in a briefcase, wallet, etc. Do not look at it. As late in the day as possible, you will review the card to reveal your fate.

Before you review your card, you will spend a few moments considering how exciting it is to be teased and then denied by someone who will be thoroughly enjoying as many orgasms as she wishes. To feel that delicious control – knowing you willingly surrendered because you were persuaded to do so by a sexy, powerfully dominant Lady ;) Reflect on how wonderful it feels to please. You will consider these things while on your knees, sitting back on your shins, legs spread, eyes open so that you can view your body’s response to being controlled. You will kneel in the same manner as soon as possible after awakening.

Should you draw one of the Jacks, you will masturbate, bringing yourself right to the edge but no farther. You will do this one time during that day.

Should you draw the Queen of Spades, Diamonds, or Clubs, you may not touch at all that day. I’m sure you will frequently find yourself considering how agonizingly delicious it is to be denied.

On the days you draw the Queen of Hearts – the Red Lady – you may touch, tease, and release once.

Of course you will offer a daily report to me (leave a comment on this post) indicating which card you drew and how you are feeling about being controlled by such a sexy lady ;) To help me keep up with where each of you are, in your daily comment I would like for you to include the phrase “this is day ___ of my experience”. Fill in the blank with the correct number for you.  You will also ask permission for the privilege of participating another day.  If I do not respond, assume you may.

You will also report daily and let me know whether or not this experience is interfering with your every day life, most especially with your job or with your relationship.  You must also understand I’m doing this as a mentor, not as someone who is taking you as a submissive.

If I have time and I think it appropriate, I may step in and alter the instructions.  If not, you will follow these instructions for seven days.  On the eighth day you will post your final comment about this experience, including a summary of what you have learned during this time.

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With one exception, the Queen of Hearts experience is at an end.  I’ve given permission to one person to begin following the instructions from previous posts.  He will submit each day’s reports as a comment on this post.

Thank you all for your obedience.  It has been a pleasure to spend time with each of you and watch as your began to learn more about yourselves and your submission.  Your comments here and your private emails have been lovely.

It is most likely that I will continue to develop activities, so keep checking back if you don’t want to miss out :)

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It’s been an interesting couple of weeks, so interesting I find myself at a loss as to how to end this.   Whatever task I choose, I fear it will be a bit anti-climactic for you.  So.. I decided the logical conclusion was to do something that would bring me pleasure :)

Tomorrow I would like for you to spend some time as a houseboy.  I know it would be a bit surprising to most of your Ladies if you suddenly got naked, donned an apron, and began doing chores so I will modify my standard houseboy attire.   Ask your Lady what chore she would most like for you to complete around the house, don as little as reasonable to protect your body and not shock your Lady, and complete it.  Cheerfully.  With humming.  And anything else that will let her know you are happy to please her ;)  If you will be away from home the entire day tomorrow, then you may write me privately for alternate instructions.

I assure  you I will quite enjoy imagining this.

As late in the day as possible *you* will choose whether you release, tease and stop, or not touch at all.  Make your choice by deciding which option will make you feel most controlled.  This may not feel to you as if you are being controlled at all, but remember – I told you to do this.  It’s my choice.

Finally, when you have time to give it the attention it deserves, I want you to write here and tell me the things you’ve learned during this time and what (if any) of your attitudes toward dominance and submission have changed.

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You seem to be doing very well, fellas :) You’ve been teased, denied, and controlled for over a week now. It’s been quite the exciting time for me and I think for you. I’m going to extend this through the weekend, with Sunday being the last day. Part of me is sad to say that, but I know it’s the wise thing to do.

So let’s enjoy the last couple of days, shall we? Oh.. and Jason, Mike, Jay… you may join us for the next two days if you would like.

Tomorrow you will draw the Jack of Hearts. Pull it out of your deck and carry it with you.

In the morning you will tease right to the edge while in the shower.

Sometime mid-day you will tease again.

In the evening, you will kneel and tease.

When you have time during the day I want you to think about the things that really, REALLY push your buttons. Being ordered, being called a good boy, kissing a Lady’s shoes, being spanked – whatever it is. Try not to limit it to objects – include the Lady’s demeanor and language.  List those things here or in a private email to me.

If you have questions, you may of course ask.

I’m thinking tomorrow will be a luscious day ;)

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Hello Good Boys :)

You’ve been controlled for several days now so I’m sure the desire to please must really be building.  Because of this, I’ve decided tomorrow’s instructions will include the opportunity to do something that will please your Lady.

Take some time to consider how much you love her, why you love her, and all the things that combine to make her a beautiful person.  After you’ve given it some thought, sit down and express all those feelings in writing.  Trust me, it doesn’t have to be poetic, you don’t have to be the world’s greatest writer (although you all do write well) – it just has to come from your heart.

You’ll have to decide if you should actually give her the letter as only you have an inkling as to her possible reaction.   If you think she might not be receptive (or might over-react with suspicion, thinking you’ve done something you shouldn’t, etc.), then tuck it away.  It’s still a good exercise as it helps to ground us to review things like that every now and then.

There will be no reading assignment on this day.

Draw your card and follow through with your instructions as usual.

I hope you and your lady enjoy this.  I’ve enjoyed just thinking about it :)

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And how are you today, fellas? :)  From the looks of your posts, you’re doing wonderfully!

For tomorrow I’m going to ask you to do something that might take a bit of time.  If you know you cannot complete your assignment, you let me know here before the end of the day tomorrow and I will alter your task.  By “cannot” I do mean that you genuinely are unable to do it, not “it’s inconvenient”.  Ok? :)

Sometime during the day you will make a trip to the supermarket.  Wander through the aisles and take note of anything that could be used to stimulate kinky/sexual thoughts or as part of kinky/sexual play.   Include things you might purchase if you were going to do something romantic for your Lady.  Present the list to me here when you post regarding this day.

Be sure and call your Lady before you go the market to see if you need to bring anything home with you ;)

Regarding touching/releasing, you will do as indicated by your card for the day.

Your reading assignment can be found here.

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Hello Gentlemen :)

Tomorrow’s assignment will require a bit of fantasizing on your part…  That won’t be a problem, will it? ;)

First, draw your card and carry it with you throughout the day without looking at it.  Right before you look at the card, spend some time thinking about the perfect phone call.  In general, what does she speak about?  How do you respond?  What, if anything, does she have you do?  What are you wearing?  What is she wearing?

You may think about this and work out the details any time between now and then, but just before you look at the card, allow the details to flow through your mind again.   Then, view your card and act on it.  If you are required to touch, then you may fantasize about whatever you like.  Do so, however, while kneeling.  If you are directed to release, also kneel.

Your reading assignment for tomorrow may be found here.

Thanks for being such very good boys ;)  I’m having a wonderful time with you.

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Smiles

Having a good time, are you, fellas?  I’m really having a great time, too.  Just as it should be, correct?  Win/win.

Tomorrow you will draw a card and follow through with whatever it indicates.

Instead of an assigned reading, you will each email to me the link for at least one piece of fiction that really excites you.

Don’t forget to report in with your answers to the questions I posed yesterday…

“Throughout the remainder of this experience I’d like for you to take special note of the women around you.  When you see or speak with someone that makes you think, “Oh she’s sexy!”, what about her makes you feel that way?  Pay extra special attention to the Ladies you see quite often and know fairly well.  What about their attitudes appeal to you?”

I know, I wasn’t clear before that I wanted to hear from  you regarding your thoughts on these questions.

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Tomorrow’s instructions?  They’re here somewhere…. ah yes.

Another Queen of Hearts day?  Oh my…  am I sure you can handle this so soon and still maintain focus?

Hmm… yes, I think you can ;)

Pull from your deck the Queen of Hearts.   Carry her with you all day long.  She’s such a lovely lady, isn’t she?  Sassy and demanding, sexy and playful.  Even though she’s an attractive queen, it’s more about her attitude, isn’t it?

Throughout the remainder of this experience I’d like for you to take special note of the women around you.  When you see or speak with someone that makes you think, “Oh she’s sexy!”, what about her makes you feel that way?  Pay extra special attention to the Ladies you see quite often and know fairly well.  What about their attitudes appeal to you?

Finally, instead of a reading assignment, I’d like for you to listen to my Kidnapped by a Domme:  the Climax.

(If you know you can’t find alone time to listen to an MP3, write me.)

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It’s All in the Attitude is a post from: The Silken Tease (c) 2010 Lady Julia. If you enjoyed this post or have something to add, please leave a comment. Remember, feedback typically encourages writers to write more ;)

Brr – it’s freezing here.  Half a foot of snow overnight leaves me with the need to warm things up a bit.  Can you imagine how cold one gets taking a bath out in the barn?  ;)

One of my friends, good boy that he is, sent a link to a story I believe will warm things up for you.  Let me know what you think.

Tomorrow you will revert to the luck of the draw.  In addition, I think it’s time we added a bit of service to all this :)  I’d like for you to do something nice for the lady in your life tomorrow.  If you can’t be with her, do something from afar.  Whatever your choice, select something uber romantic.  Should you have no lady in your life at the moment, then write to me privately and I will alter your instructions.

You’re doing great, fellas :)  I’m very pleased.

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