It’s been quite a while since a couple of you have released, so I’d like for today to be the day. We’ll end this music experience here, but I may pick it up again in the future.

I’m still ill so please don’t mistake my feeling poorly for a lack of enthusiasm over what you’ve done. I’m very impressed with how well you’ve all done.

~ Lady Julia

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Releasing is a post from: The Silken Tease (c) 2010 Lady Julia. If you enjoyed this post or have something to add, please leave a comment. Remember, feedback typically encourages writers to write more ;)

Hello Fellas,

I am pretty ill at the moment. Nothing to worry about, but something the doctor said would likely stay with me for several days. I honestly do not feel like even contemplating what direction I want each of you to go, so I’m going to do something that wouldn’t be uncommon in an every day situation (sometimes life just gets in the way, doesn’t it?). You need to step up and make a decision: you may end this activity now and decide how you end it (release, no release, etc) or you may continue on and do what you think I would want you to do. Most of you know me well enough that I believe you can think like me :)

Keep reporting every day until you finish or until I return. I want to know you’re doing ok. I’ll read and approve your comments, but that’s about all the time I will spend online for a few days unless some major question arises from one of you.

I’m not sure this makes sense. I hope so. Time to rest.

Hugs,
Lady Julia

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What Would I Want..? is a post from: The Silken Tease (c) 2010 Lady Julia. If you enjoyed this post or have something to add, please leave a comment. Remember, feedback typically encourages writers to write more ;)

How about a short activity?  Just a few days… two or three maybe.    Those who are interested may ask permission to join via the comment section of this post.   This will be fairly laid back, not nearly as intense as the Queen of Hearts.

Instructions:

Now that you’ve identified songs or videos that seem oh so sexy to you, I think it would be a wonderful idea if you watched and/or listened to them a couple of times during one day (tomorrow if possible or the first possible day thereafter).  As you watch and listen think how luscious it would feel to touch.

Oh, wait… I forgot.  No touching at all the day you follow those instructions ;)  Just let the music and/or the video do the teasing.  As a little reminder, wrap a tie or a cloth belt loosely around your wrists.

As for me and some of the songs I find sexy:

The lyrics from “You Sexy Thing“

The songs:

“Love to Love Ya Baby“

“I’m Your Man” by Leonard Cohen

“Let’s Get It On” and “Sexual Healing” by Marvin Gaye

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You Sexy Thing is a post from: The Silken Tease (c) 2010 Lady Julia. If you enjoyed this post or have something to add, please leave a comment. Remember, feedback typically encourages writers to write more ;)

Imagine the woman of your dreams appears before you, saying, “You’ve been a very good boy for a very long time.  So good, in fact, that I am willing to consider granting one of your fantasies.  Kneel, look into my eyes, and describe the one you would most want fulfilled.”  How would you reply?

If you’ve shared a fantasy here in the past, then describe another.

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If You Could Live Out One Fantasy… is a post from: The Silken Tease (c) 2010 Lady Julia. If you enjoyed this post or have something to add, please leave a comment. Remember, feedback typically encourages writers to write more ;)

“You shake my nerves and you rattle my brain
Too much love drives a man insane
You broke my will, oh what a thrill
Goodness gracious great balls of fire.”

- Great Balls of Fire by Otis Blackwell and Jack Hammer

I never really thought about these lyrics in a D/s sense until someone sent them to me today.  While I don’t want to break someone’s will, the rest of that really works for me ;)

It’s time for your period of tease and denial to begin.  How long will it be before I hear you plead?…  I know you won’t beg until you are desperate because you realize that’s part of what makes this so exciting for me.  You’re strong – you can hold out for awhile.  Your strength is a challenge I enjoy – your will is something to be conquered.  It’s fortunate I am so creative and skilled in the ways of tease and seduction…

And of course, during all this time of sweet denial for you, there will continue to be periods of amazing pleasure for me. You’ll make certain of that, won’t you? ;)

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And So It Begins… is a post from: The Silken Tease (c) 2010 Lady Julia. If you enjoyed this post or have something to add, please leave a comment. Remember, feedback typically encourages writers to write more ;)

New Year’s Eve is upon us.  It’s time to confess.. have you been a good boy this year?

You have?  Then tell me.. what have you done in the last month to please the lady in your life (or a lady in your life)?  Christmas pleasures do not count.  Go ahead, jot them down.  There’s a good boy.  Now.. did you do as many things for her as you could have?

Of course you should do everything you can to please your lady simply because you care for her.  Sometimes, however, you may require a bit of prompting and training.  She could spank you, deny you, ignore you – any number of things.

What if for a period of time, your touching and orgasms were tied to your attempts to please?  I think a grading scale or a point system would be quite interesting…

Brings me flowers – may touch for pleasure for five minutes.  No release.

Brings me a strawberry cheesequake blizzard – may tease for ten minutes.  Sorry, no release.

Brings me chocolate – may tease til you’re right on the edge.  The niceness of the chocolate will determine whether or not you come.  Godiva chocolate.. well.. I’ll think about it ;)

In all seriousness, I do think this could be a fun activity and quite the effective training tool (simple behavior modification at it’s most interesting ;)  Some things earn no points.  These are the things you do as a matter of course because she has the right to expect them of you.  The things that require active submission – things you do on your own without prompting – would carry the most value.  Extra tasks you are asked to do would receive their fair share as well.  Bonus points for every orgasm she has as a result of your attention ;)  At the end of a day or a week she would evaluate your efforts, determine your points, and allow your reward.

Of course, as the Domme, she would reserve the right to subtract points at will.  Can’t allow you to get too confident or forget who’s really in charge  ;)

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Have You Been a Good Boy? is a post from: The Silken Tease (c) 2010 Lady Julia. If you enjoyed this post or have something to add, please leave a comment. Remember, feedback typically encourages writers to write more ;)

Tease and denial have long been exciting to me.  Enticing a man, exciting him so much that he can barely refrain from coming, then ordering him to stop – yum.  The look on his face is always priceless :)

On this site I will discuss various ideas I have for tease, denial, and orgasm control and will use it to do a bit of interactive education with some of my readers ;)   If you’re interested in feeling that delicious sense of control, it’s up to you to prove to me that you deserve it…

Soft kiss on the cheek,
Lady Julia

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Tease and Denial is a post from: The Silken Tease (c) 2010 Lady Julia. If you enjoyed this post or have something to add, please leave a comment. Remember, feedback typically encourages writers to write more ;)