How about a short activity? Just a few days… two or three maybe. Those who are interested may ask permission to join via the comment section of this post. This will be fairly laid back, not nearly as intense as the Queen of Hearts.
Instructions:
Now that you’ve identified songs or videos that seem oh so sexy to you, I think it would be a wonderful idea if you watched and/or listened to them a couple of times during one day (tomorrow if possible or the first possible day thereafter). As you watch and listen think how luscious it would feel to touch.
Oh, wait… I forgot. No touching at all the day you follow those instructions ;) Just let the music and/or the video do the teasing. As a little reminder, wrap a tie or a cloth belt loosely around your wrists.
As for me and some of the songs I find sexy:
The lyrics from “You Sexy Thing“
The songs:
“I’m Your Man” by Leonard Cohen
“Let’s Get It On” and “Sexual Healing” by Marvin Gaye
Lady Julia,
I would like permission to participate.
I had not considered Leonard Cohen. “I’m Your Man” is a great song. I have been listening to “Live in London” a lot. Do you like “Hallelujah”? I find that song very erotic and compelling.
Thanks for doing another event.
Mike
Dear Lady Julia: The Queen of Hearts experience is still moving me in ways I could not have imagined. Please allow me to continue to grow and explore the T&D deparmtent of the Enchanted Realm, where obeying never guarantees release, but always brings the most arousing sensations I have ever felt. I regret that I will not be able to start until the day after tomorrow, as I will be too busy packing and moving to our new home to devote any time to the activity.
Mike, I *love* the lyrics to “I’m Your Man” (I know you are surprised) :) Hallelujah is beautiful too.
Mike and Rumi, you may both participate.
Patrick, you’re doing great :)
Lady Julia may I please participate. I do not very often listen to music but I do find it very erotic to listen to bump and grind kind of songs. If I may participate I could listen to some songs I have like that. They are not really songs just music associated with some videos I have. I can listen to then without watching the videos.
Yay!! and thanks, Dear Lady. I am so excited to see that I am in the company of people who enjoy Leonard Cohen. He has been one of my favorite artists for years and years. Since I wandered into the Enchanted Realm, for the first time I know why I like him so well. He has been answering my unasked questions for a long time. I am ready to play!
Hello Lady Julia,
Please may I participate also?
Jay
Lady Julia,
This is day two. I followed your instructions. I did not feel aroused as much as I felt sexually energized. My senses felt sharpened and focused. Not what I expected, but still very nice.
I can’t imagine why you like “I’m Your Man”. ;-)
Musically,
Mike
Lady Julia, good afternoon, my thanks for the time and attention you are devoting, I hope I can please you and offer some distraction from the full catastrophe we call life.
I took a trip to KMart this morning to pick up cleaning supplies for the new place, and immediately remembered the kinky shopping trip from the Queen of Hearts. Suddenly everyone in KMart seemed incredibly sexy and desireable to me and I tried to be very mindful of where my gaze wanted to wander. Two women squeezed past me in an aisle, and their combined scents caused me some fairly intense arousal. I successfully fought the urge to follow along behind them, relaxed and focused myself on picking out the right broom and mop. As I drove home I thought about how lovely it would be to find a moment alone and touch myself while recalling the combination of musk, sweat, perfume and an unmistakeable undercurrent of girl juice. I ran to the bathroom and closed the door and…yikes! remembered! On with the move pant pant
Yes, fellas, you may all join in :) I’m looking forward to reading about your experiences.
Rumi, your last comment – to cute :) Good boy for remembering your agreement to surrender your touching for a couple of days.
Lady Julia,
Did you have a specific number of days in mind? You imply one day.
I got mixed up with the other event and did this for two days. As they say memory is the second thing to go. I forget what the first thing is. :-)
Mike
Let’s see… three days sounds good to me :)
“You Sexy Thing” day1: Today was so full of needful tasks that I did not have a chance to play until quite late. With wrists lightly bound, I relaxed and focused on the tunes, but my body had little energy for arousal. I was content with the slight burn and fell asleep.
This morning, I am thinking about Grace Jones, and why I find her so sexy. It’s something more than the cartoon dominatrix persona. I remember her in the Conan movie where she played a warrior, mostly naked taking on a swarm of villains with her spear. Conan gazed at her and with a slight smirk recognized that this was his kind of girl. He showed respect, though, at let her finish off the baddies before approaching her and inviting her along on the mission. I wonder how many days he went without touching?
Day three of music experience.
It is definitely starting to amp up. It is a bit odd. Music affects my whole body and mind. So I am getting aroused differently than just by reading or looking at pictures. More whole body than localized. I wish I had the words to describe how it is different. It just feels different. Very nice feeling.
This is very powerful a long with the other hypnotic task. Should I continue this task through phase 2 (or more) of the relaxation task?
So far very nice.
Thank you,
Mike
You may continue another day, Mike. I want you to see where this goes :)
Day one Sunday 21 Feb 2010
I began by tying a red length of cloth I purchased especially for this experience around my waist. The red cloth tied around my waist is all I had on. I was excited doing this for you Lady Julia. Not outwardly excited as I was not raging hard but my heart was beating at an elevated pace. I put on 5 videos of sexy girls wiggling around touching themselves that have very erotic stimulating music. Each vides is 10 to 15 minutes and I watched all 5 continuously with no interruptions sitting in a very comfortable position. I sat and concentrated on the videos working to put myself in kind of a trance state imagining that they were not videos but the actual girls in front of me teasing me as if you had instructed them to do Lady Julia.
I was very excited sitting there and my mind drifted between intense concentration on the music and video and imagining Lady Julia watching me. I was definitely excited. The total time of the experience was just under an hour. A number of times during that hour I experienced a sudden rush of blood into my cock and a throbbing. Ohhhhhhh soooooo wanted to reach down and touch but refrained. These rushes lasted maybe 10 to 15 seconds and then my cock returned to a semi erect state. By the end a few drops or clear liquid had seeped from the tip. I removed the red cloth tied around my waist and carefully folded it and put it in the drawer. It was late so I headed off to bed.
I will be doing day two right after I submit this to the forum.
Lady Julia,
I have done three days of listening to the music and two days of the sexual fantasy phase of the hypnosis experience.
They absolutely work well together. The music and the fantasies are starting to inter mingle.
I think I have a explanation on how the music is affecting me. Like most guys, I tend to hold back my emotions. Listening to music is the one time where I naturally just let go of my emotions. For me listening to erotic music is more emotional than physical. There is a physical component, but the emotions of it is what I feel the most.
Just fascinating. That is an interesting self discovery. Thank you so much.
I have one more day on the sexual fantasy experience. With your permission I would like to listen to the music one more day too.
Musically,
Mike
It’s interesting that this and the hypnosis activity both seem to be making a bigger emotional impact than physical. Is that the case for most of you?
Rumi, I know you’re very busy right now I appreciate your efforts and attention to doing this.
Brian, thank you for your obedience. You’re doing very well.
Mike, yes, by all means continue one more day. I want to see where this goes for you :)
You are all doing a wonderful job! I’m so pleased.
Day two Monday 22 Feb 2010
I started the night with a bad attitude I am afraid to report. Last night was more difficult and frustrating that I realized it would be. I am used to being teased and denied where I actually stimulate myself. I have never teased myself like this where I watch and listen something that is exciting like the videos last night and not touch myself. That took teasing to a completely different and unfamiliar level. Tonight I removed all of my clothes and tied the red cloth around my waist and put on 5 similar videos to last night. I sat down and started to watch. My concentration was not good from the start. I kept wanting to touch and was getting frustrated. I was entertaining ideas of touching and then lying to you Lady Julia in the posting. I milled that over in my mind and decided there would be nothing to gain from it and much to lose as I would learn nothing and the posting would give you incorrect information as well which would cause you to have a incorrect conclusions on which to base future sessions on.
Any way as I watched I was not getting excited like I was last because of this lack of concentration and a wandering mind not to mention the frustration. After maybe 45 minutes I started excepting the teasing nature of the exercise and my concentration improved and I felt a degree of excitement all thought I did not obtain the kind of erection I did last night. The last video finished at about 55 minutes. I removed the red cloth around my waist and dressed and headed to bed.
I had a lot of things to do after work today and do not have time to do the third session. May I please do it tomorrow night Lady Julia? I promise to have a better attitude. I believe I have now excepted this as a very wicked form of teasing on your part and look forward to the third session.
“You Sexy Thing” Days 2 and 3: Dear Lady, I was going to beg your forgiveness for my tardiness, but I see you already have and I thank you. On Day 2, work and moving consumed most of my time. Unable to comply with instructions, I listened to my sexy songs while walking, imagining my favorite red tie around the wrists. At work, the morning break music came on and it yanked me out of sublimation briefly, with a full body tingle that apparently lit up my face, as two coworkers took note of my goofy grin as we did our daily spontaneous group dance. You are right, it is more emotional than physical. The emotion I feel is joy at being alive and gratitude for good health and working parts.
Day 3 I had the chance to sit alone in my favorite big red chair, with my red tie around my wrists. I hope you don’t find this inappropriate, but I listened to “In Her Control”, which I find to be the sexiest, most arousing recording I have heard in a long time. Three days of denial brought me to that lovely space that seems to be outside my body,where I can stay completely still and imagine you dancing around in the control room twirling dials and dancing with the little gnome who is supposed to be in charge of operations. I literally laughed out loud. Obedience is Pleasure!
Day four of listening to the music. I am ruined. I will never be able to listen to this piece of music again without it affecting me this way. I could just imagine my reaction at a live concert. ;-)
As I stated in my other post I really like the affect of music and hypnosis. I am going to experiment in the future with this. Like listening to relaxing music before trancing. I think it will help.
This is a really cool event. I would not have thought of this on my own. You probably get tired of people telling you that you are the coolest domme, but you are.
Mike
Mike, keep doing this as long as I am doing the other activity on the Silken Tease.
Oh… except add the teasing component… all the way to the edge, once each day.
And I never get tired of hearing nice things :)
Rumi, I can see why you would like “In Her Control”. The friend who wrote the story did an excellent job :)
Would you like to end now, or like Mike, continue on? The next phase will require you to tease once a day, right to the edge, and then stop. If this would seem to detract from the experience for you, then don’t add this component, just continue on for one more day. I’m trying to target this one to you each individually. You seem to really be relaxing and enjoying. I like thinking of you in that place :)
Brian, for you – I think I would like for you to continue as you are with no touching. You may continue with the activity tonight as requested. Each of you has different things to learn from this and I can see you are learning yours :)
Sometimes doing the thing that pleases the Lady isn’t always – at first – the thing that pleases you, is it? I’m so touched that you want to continue on and I can tell you want to find the place where obedience feels so very good, don’t you? Perhaps it might help, before you begin, to close your eyes and imagine warm, soft lips whispering oh so sexily in your ear, telling you what a good boy you are… how pleasing your surrender is – just for this time. You can imagine that, can’t you? I know you can… and I know that when you do, you’ll feel some of that resistance fade.
Dear Lady Julia: Do I want to continue? Oh Yes Ma’am!
Day three Tuesday 23 Feb 2010
I arrived home from the gym anxious to slip out of my clothes and put on the red cloth belt and be such an obedient boy for you Lady Julia. I may have rushed the workout at the gym or at least not given it my full attention as I kept fantasizing of being under your control and being so very pleasing to you.
I put on 7 videos this time as I wanted to be sure I went over one hour with the listening and viewing the erotic sounds and sights. From the start I wanted to concentrate on being under your control and being very obedient as opposed to trying to get excited from listening and watching. To that end I was very successful. As I watched I imagined that the girls knew that I was not allowed to touch per your instructions and that they kept tempting me to disobey. The thought of resisting their temptations was very pleasing to me. I imagined your reaction to knowing I had resisted. I kept thinking and hoping that I would hear your praises for my obedience. As it turned out I did not get the heightened excitement I did the first day of this exercise but I felt very good to have obeyed.
The 7 videos seemed to fly by and when I looked over to the clock it had been 64 minutes. I smiled and removed and red cloth tied around my waist and carefully folded it and came to make this entry.
One thing I have learned is that I am very much enjoying being under your control for this little part of my life. I do hope this is pleasing to you Lady Julia. Thank you very much for being patient working to teach me what you seem to know is deep within. I would like to continue with what ever exercise you may wish to explore next. I will not be touching in hopes that I can be obedient and pleasing to you in some other way. Denying myself until farther notice. Smiles
Phase 2 day 1.
I listened to my song and took myself to the edge. It did not take any time at all, and I was trying to slow myself down. The music has a deeply profound affect on me.
I wish I could remember my dreams. I know I had them. I woke up an hour before my alarm with my body temperature elevated and the sheets in disarray. No touching or release though.
I am typing this with a very dull, constant ache between my legs, which I don’t think will go away for quite a while. I hope your are smiling.
Remarkable.
Thanks so much,
Mike
Very well done, fellas :) Continue on as directed.
I got home to late tonight to tease myself. Mmmmmmmm will have to think of something for tomorrow night. Maybe start off with watching a few of the videos like I did the previous three days you Lady Julia. Mmmm yes I like that. I can watch videos not touching for 30 or so minutes, then watching a few more touching myself and getting close and denying. Hmmmmm yes. But how shall I touch. Fingers and Vaseline are always a good choice. Ok ok getting ahead of myself. Naughty smile. Will post what ever I do tomorrow after I finish
Day 1, 2 and 3
Lady Julia,
I have not been able to access the comments section the last few days due to the word “sex” in the comments links, so I will update you all at once.
I started this activity after a week of no release and some serious teasing by Vee last weekend. I thought it would be interesting to see how I went with your “no touching” instruction..
Sunday at my transit hotel before going up to site I listened to the songs I had selected for the exercise. Chistine McVie – Warm Ways and Sentimental Lady; Norah Jones – Turn me On, At Last and Don’t Know Why. Both Ladies with very sexy voices. Also, I’m Your Man – I like Leonard Cohen but had not noticed this song until you mentioned it. I had my wrists wrapped with the red ribbon that I use to identify my suitcase from all the other black ones.
I felt much the same as several others have described in their comments – not “hard on” arousing but rather an “all over buzz” arousing. In any case, listening to beautiful songs sung by sexy voices and my “bound” wrists a constant reminder of my commitment to obey your “no touching” instruction….was pretty enjoyable.
The next two days I have repeated the above with much the same results. The only changes I have noticed are that it is heading a little more towards a “hard on” arousal each time and the songs have stayed in my head, surfacing frequently during the day and accompanied by an acknowledging twinge from my groin area :-)
Last night I did not listen to the songs as I had not been able to post. Lady Julia, if I may, I would like to continue listening in conjunction with the SW exercise and see what happens…
Jay
Dear Lady Julia: “You Sexy Thing” days 4 and 5: Going to the edge each morning after my relaxation exercise, I found a new space of feeling protected, safe and warm. The need to “perform” has always seemed to me to be an obstacle to surrender, or maybe it is a way of NOT surrendering, but remaining in control. Does this make any sense to you? I’m guessing maybe more than I will ever know.
I was listening to Mama Cass Elliott of the Mamas and Papas while touching, and it brought me way back to the days when sex was new and scary and all the bright shiny skinny girls loved my dancing but refused my kisses.
Phase 2 day 2.
Listened to my song. Went up to the edge and stopped. Barely. I was barely able to stop myself. I honestly don’t know if I could do this again and stop without some sort of help.
This is a remarkable experience.
Thank you doing this for us.
Mike
Phase 2 “You Sexy Thing” 3 days on the edge and completely physically exhausted from working all day and moving stuff every evening to the new place. Why does it feel so lovely? There was a time not long ago when 3 days without release would just feel like a punishment. I would get irritable and sarcastic and have fantasies of finding a hooker and going to Motel 6. This way is so much more fun, and much better for my health!