You must write me privately, introduce yourself, and ask permission to begin this activity. Your introduction should include your age, relationship status, and a statement that you will not allow any of this to interfere with your personal life. I will not consider any request that includes less than that.
Here are the general instructions:
You will need a stack of cards containing four jacks and four queens, one of each suit. These cards are to be taken from a deck you purchased specifically for me.
For at least a week, your solo masturbation and orgasm activities will be determined by the luck of the draw (or, if I so choose, directly by me). Draw a card each day, even if I instruct you to do something differently than the card indicates. I want you to have the card as a reminder and also as an option should I change my mind :)
Shuffle the eight cards and each morning, draw one. Place it somewhere on your person or in a briefcase, wallet, etc. Do not look at it. As late in the day as possible, you will review the card to reveal your fate.
Before you review your card, you will spend a few moments considering how exciting it is to be teased and then denied by someone who will be thoroughly enjoying as many orgasms as she wishes. To feel that delicious control – knowing you willingly surrendered because you were persuaded to do so by a sexy, powerfully dominant Lady ;) Reflect on how wonderful it feels to please. You will consider these things while on your knees, sitting back on your shins, legs spread, eyes open so that you can view your body’s response to being controlled. You will kneel in the same manner as soon as possible after awakening.
Should you draw one of the Jacks, you will masturbate, bringing yourself right to the edge but no farther. You will do this one time during that day.
Should you draw the Queen of Spades, Diamonds, or Clubs, you may not touch at all that day. I’m sure you will frequently find yourself considering how agonizingly delicious it is to be denied.
On the days you draw the Queen of Hearts – the Red Lady – you may touch, tease, and release once.
Of course you will offer a daily report to me (leave a comment on this post) indicating which card you drew and how you are feeling about being controlled by such a sexy lady ;) To help me keep up with where each of you are, in your daily comment I would like for you to include the phrase “this is day ___ of my experience”. Fill in the blank with the correct number for you. You will also ask permission for the privilege of participating another day. If I do not respond, assume you may.
You will also report daily and let me know whether or not this experience is interfering with your every day life, most especially with your job or with your relationship. You must also understand I’m doing this as a mentor, not as someone who is taking you as a submissive.
If I have time and I think it appropriate, I may step in and alter the instructions. If not, you will follow these instructions for seven days. On the eighth day you will post your final comment about this experience, including a summary of what you have learned during this time.