Releasing

Hello Fellas,

It’s been quite a while since a couple of you have released, so I’d like for today to be the day. We’ll end this music experience here, but I may pick it up again in the future.

I’m still ill so please don’t mistake my feeling poorly for a lack of enthusiasm over what you’ve done. I’m very impressed with how well you’ve all done.

~ Lady Julia

Posted by Lady Julia on March 1st, 2010 under basics • 8 Comments

What Would I Want..?

Hello Fellas,

I am pretty ill at the moment. Nothing to worry about, but something the doctor said would likely stay with me for several days. I honestly do not feel like even contemplating what direction I want each of you to go, so I’m going to do something that wouldn’t be uncommon in an every day situation (sometimes life just gets in the way, doesn’t it?). You need to step up and make a decision: you may end this activity now and decide how you end it (release, no release, etc) or you may continue on and do what you think I would want you to do. Most of you know me well enough that I believe you can think like me :)

Keep reporting every day until you finish or until I return. I want to know you’re doing ok. I’ll read and approve your comments, but that’s about all the time I will spend online for a few days unless some major question arises from one of you.

I’m not sure this makes sense. I hope so. Time to rest.

Hugs,
Lady Julia

Posted by Lady Julia on February 26th, 2010 under basics • 6 Comments

You Sexy Thing

How about a short activity?  Just a few days… two or three maybe.    Those who are interested may ask permission to join via the comment section of this post.   This will be fairly laid back, not nearly as intense as the Queen of Hearts.

Instructions:

Now that you’ve identified songs or videos that seem oh so sexy to you, I think it would be a wonderful idea if you watched and/or listened to them a couple of times during one day (tomorrow if possible or the first possible day thereafter).  As you watch and listen think how luscious it would feel to touch.

Oh, wait… I forgot.  No touching at all the day you follow those instructions ;)  Just let the music and/or the video do the teasing.  As a little reminder, wrap a tie or a cloth belt loosely around your wrists.

As for me and some of the songs I find sexy:

The lyrics from “You Sexy Thing

The songs:

Love to Love Ya Baby

“I’m Your Man” by Leonard Cohen

“Let’s Get It On” and “Sexual Healing” by Marvin Gaye

Posted by Lady Julia on February 19th, 2010 under basics • 32 Comments

Sexiest Songs or Music Videos – Warning, This May Be Used Against You ;)

Do you ever find yourself very aroused when watching certain music videos or listening to particular songs? If yes, which ones?  Be good boys and list as many as possible….

Posted by Lady Julia on February 17th, 2010 under simple dominance • 13 Comments

If You Could Live Out One Fantasy…


Imagine the woman of your dreams appears before you, saying, “You’ve been a very good boy for a very long time.  So good, in fact, that I am willing to consider granting one of your fantasies.  Kneel, look into my eyes, and describe the one you would most want fulfilled.”  How would you reply?

If you’ve shared a fantasy here in the past, then describe another.

Posted by Lady Julia on February 16th, 2010 under basics • 7 Comments

Complete the Story: Hunger


There are times when she hungers for the taste of you.  Her lips seeking out all your sensitive spots, caressing, licking, leaving you breathless and begging.

Begging.  Oh how she loves to hear your desperate words, your passionate promises.  Nothing demonstrates her power more than her big, strong, sexy man pleading.

“Please my Lady!  If you will permit me, I will do anything.”

“Anything, pet?”  You hear the smile in her voice.

“Yes, anything!”

She has you exactly where she wants you now.  Her control is almost palpable – as is your surrender.  What an extraordinary gift from an extraordinary man.

“Well.. I’m not sure…” she teases.   She knows she’s pushing you right up to the edge.  “Alright.. I will grant my permission, but the cost may be too high, my Darling.”

Your eyes continue to beg, but you are quiet.  You’re not certain if words are even possible now.

“For you to have that which you desire, you must be willing to sacrifice.”   She pauses, waited for a response.  At your nod, she continues.  “I have a list of three things – belongings you value, activities you enjoy, privileges you have earned.   Things you covet.  Select a number from one to three, pet, and one of these treasures will be be mine to own or control – just like you.”

“Two.”  Your voice is but a raspy whisper.

“Very well, two it is.”

~~

“Complete the Story” is an interactive tease exercise.   As the title suggests, I begin a story and you tell me how it ends.  Don’t worry if your writing is not what you would wish for it to be, I desire to hear your thoughts, not grade your performance ;)   After you read what I’ve written thus far, close your eyes and imagine yourself there.  What happens next?  What must you sacrifice and what do you gain?  What did she do to bring you this far?

Posted by Lady Julia on February 11th, 2010 under complete the story • 5 Comments

Directions for Queen of Hearts

You must write me privately, introduce yourself, and ask permission to begin this activity.  Your introduction should include your age, relationship status, and a statement that you will not allow any of this to interfere with your personal life.  I will not consider any request that includes less than that.

Here are the general instructions:

You will need a stack of cards containing four jacks and four queens, one of each suit. These cards are to be taken from a deck you purchased specifically for me.

For at least a week, your solo masturbation and orgasm activities will be determined by the luck of the draw (or, if I so choose, directly by me). Draw a card each day, even if I instruct you to do something differently than the card indicates. I want you to have the card as a reminder and also as an option should I change my mind :)

Shuffle the eight cards and each morning, draw one. Place it somewhere on your person or in a briefcase, wallet, etc. Do not look at it. As late in the day as possible, you will review the card to reveal your fate.

Before you review your card, you will spend a few moments considering how exciting it is to be teased and then denied by someone who will be thoroughly enjoying as many orgasms as she wishes. To feel that delicious control – knowing you willingly surrendered because you were persuaded to do so by a sexy, powerfully dominant Lady ;) Reflect on how wonderful it feels to please. You will consider these things while on your knees, sitting back on your shins, legs spread, eyes open so that you can view your body’s response to being controlled. You will kneel in the same manner as soon as possible after awakening.

Should you draw one of the Jacks, you will masturbate, bringing yourself right to the edge but no farther. You will do this one time during that day.

Should you draw the Queen of Spades, Diamonds, or Clubs, you may not touch at all that day. I’m sure you will frequently find yourself considering how agonizingly delicious it is to be denied.

On the days you draw the Queen of Hearts – the Red Lady – you may touch, tease, and release once.

Of course you will offer a daily report to me (leave a comment on this post) indicating which card you drew and how you are feeling about being controlled by such a sexy lady ;) To help me keep up with where each of you are, in your daily comment I would like for you to include the phrase “this is day ___ of my experience”. Fill in the blank with the correct number for you.  You will also ask permission for the privilege of participating another day.  If I do not respond, assume you may.

You will also report daily and let me know whether or not this experience is interfering with your every day life, most especially with your job or with your relationship.  You must also understand I’m doing this as a mentor, not as someone who is taking you as a submissive.

If I have time and I think it appropriate, I may step in and alter the instructions.  If not, you will follow these instructions for seven days.  On the eighth day you will post your final comment about this experience, including a summary of what you have learned during this time.

Posted by Lady Julia on February 10th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 7 Comments

You’ve Done So Well

With one exception, the Queen of Hearts experience is at an end.  I’ve given permission to one person to begin following the instructions from previous posts.  He will submit each day’s reports as a comment on this post.

Thank you all for your obedience.  It has been a pleasure to spend time with each of you and watch as your began to learn more about yourselves and your submission.  Your comments here and your private emails have been lovely.

It is most likely that I will continue to develop activities, so keep checking back if you don’t want to miss out :)

Posted by Lady Julia on February 8th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 7 Comments

Houseboy

It’s been an interesting couple of weeks, so interesting I find myself at a loss as to how to end this.   Whatever task I choose, I fear it will be a bit anti-climactic for you.  So.. I decided the logical conclusion was to do something that would bring me pleasure :)

Tomorrow I would like for you to spend some time as a houseboy.  I know it would be a bit surprising to most of your Ladies if you suddenly got naked, donned an apron, and began doing chores so I will modify my standard houseboy attire.   Ask your Lady what chore she would most like for you to complete around the house, don as little as reasonable to protect your body and not shock your Lady, and complete it.  Cheerfully.  With humming.  And anything else that will let her know you are happy to please her ;)  If you will be away from home the entire day tomorrow, then you may write me privately for alternate instructions.

I assure  you I will quite enjoy imagining this.

As late in the day as possible *you* will choose whether you release, tease and stop, or not touch at all.  Make your choice by deciding which option will make you feel most controlled.  This may not feel to you as if you are being controlled at all, but remember – I told you to do this.  It’s my choice.

Finally, when you have time to give it the attention it deserves, I want you to write here and tell me the things you’ve learned during this time and what (if any) of your attitudes toward dominance and submission have changed.

Posted by Lady Julia on February 6th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 9 Comments

Pushing a Few Buttons

You seem to be doing very well, fellas :) You’ve been teased, denied, and controlled for over a week now. It’s been quite the exciting time for me and I think for you. I’m going to extend this through the weekend, with Sunday being the last day. Part of me is sad to say that, but I know it’s the wise thing to do.

So let’s enjoy the last couple of days, shall we? Oh.. and Jason, Mike, Jay… you may join us for the next two days if you would like.

Tomorrow you will draw the Jack of Hearts. Pull it out of your deck and carry it with you.

In the morning you will tease right to the edge while in the shower.

Sometime mid-day you will tease again.

In the evening, you will kneel and tease.

When you have time during the day I want you to think about the things that really, REALLY push your buttons. Being ordered, being called a good boy, kissing a Lady’s shoes, being spanked – whatever it is. Try not to limit it to objects – include the Lady’s demeanor and language.  List those things here or in a private email to me.

If you have questions, you may of course ask.

I’m thinking tomorrow will be a luscious day ;)

Posted by Lady Julia on February 5th, 2010 under Queen of Hearts, simple dominance • 10 Comments